http://drumsnwhistles.disqus.com/photos, pugs and all that jazzenSat, 08 Oct 2005 07:54:30 -0000http://www.drumsnwhistles.com/2005/10/07/tgif/#comment-3777258<p>Once I learned to respond to my kids' stories as if they were true for them (no matter how hurt I felt) our relationships improved dramatically. I can hear their stories, no matter how hurtful for me. We all long to be heard.</p>lizSat, 08 Oct 2005 07:54:30 -0000http://www.drumsnwhistles.com/2005/10/07/tgif/#comment-3777257<p>I am sorry I think that all kids think they were mistreated. I often reflect on my own childhood and wonder if I took things out of context. Hang in there one day he will be grateful for all that you gave him.</p>shellyFri, 07 Oct 2005 21:22:27 -0000